Struggling through Betrayal?
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone you had trusted, someone who had been a close friend and confidant suddenly betrays you? They say something about you to another person? They share some personal information you had entrusted them with? The pain cuts deep!
I recall a situation in my own life back a number of years ago. I was involved in ministry work. I had several partners who were heavily engaged with me. We worked very close in the endeavor the Lord had given us to do.
We had become so close; we were sharing very intimate details of our lives with each other—struggles, thoughts, feelings. We often prayed for each other and prayed for God’s Spirit to empower us as the enemy was constantly attacking us. To the amazement and detriment of the rest of the team, one of our own became a betrayer.
We were shaking up the kingdom of the enemy through our endeavors and he was not happy. He found one person willing to step up to the plate and begin betraying our team members by twisting and perverting life situations and struggles. The gossip and lies grew more intense. Before long, we were not only struggling in the ministry work but struggling daily defending ourselves from the ever-growing lies and deception of the betrayer.
We began to pray for the individual and the chaotic situation this person had created for our ministry work. God’s Spirit intervened and the individual was pricked in his heart by what he had done and he eventually asked for our forgiveness and set out to correct all the lies he had started. We certainly learned from the situation. We learned quickly that one of your closest can quickly become an enemy of betrayal!
When I think back on that situation, my mind drifts over to the greatest betrayal ever perpetrated. Judas, a disciple of Jesus, betrayed the Son of God to the angry mob that was out to kill Him. The Scripture tells us: “His betrayer had given them a signal. ‘The One I kiss,’ he said, ‘He’s the One; arrest Him and take Him away under guard’” (Mark 14:44 HCSB). A simple kiss and the fate of the Son of God was sealed
There is no greater pain than that felt when you find yourself betrayed by someone you trusted so dearly. The only means of releasing the pain is to give it over to God. Pray for your betrayer. Forgive the betrayer, even in the midst of their on-going acts of betrayal. Do not allow the enemy to gain the victory by allowing the hurt and pain to overwhelm your life. Take ahold of the victory by turning it all over to God and walking away from it.
Scripture Reading: “Lord, how my foes increase! There are many who attack me. Many say about me, ‘There is no help for him in God.’ But You, Lord, are a shield around me, my glory, and the One who lifts up my head. I cry aloud to the Lord, and He answers me from His holy mountain. I lie down and sleep; I wake again because the Lord sustains me. I am not afraid of the thousands of people who have taken their stand against me on every side. Rise up, Lord! Save me, my God! You strike all my enemies on the cheek; You break the teeth of the wicked. Salvation belongs to the Lord; may Your blessing be on Your people” (Psalm 2 HCSB).
Prayer: Father, in my greatest times of troubles, You are always there! When the enemy is attacking from all sides, You are always there! I thank You and praise You for protecting me with Your strong arm of protection. I thank You that when others say things against me, betray me, speak out in lies and deception against me; You are always there with the truth. Father, help me to forgive those who say and do things against me. Help me to stand strong in the face of evil. You are my victory, my strength and the lifter of my head! Thank you, Father!…in Jesus’ name…AMEN!
